Relationship as a COUPLE
Couples composed of two people, of different upbringing, from different environment, from different type of discipline, and from different kind of beliefs in all things. That is why most couples doesn't last for a long time and choose to just end the relationship even if they still love each other and still wanted to be with each other because they cannot just can't bear to be with each other forever (only for a day or two or "just when I needed you most" but if I am happy you're out of my life! only when I am sad, no one to talk to, no money to spend and etc...). Reasons, reasons, reasons....it is really a choice between couples, I mean the parting time, no matter how painful to see him or her go, one of each will always think it is better to let go than to be hurt so many times. Okay! Let's deal with this....
Let us first deal with LOVE GONE ASTRAY.
WHAT. Know the reasons (no matter how many) what causes the "Forever Never After" thing. Love? I guess not, love is always there ( accept it or not, it's up to you, just do not be a hypocrite...), it never left even if you are not with each other anymore, love always finds its ways to your hearts. But not always to make up, (yeah, sadly) sometimes just enough to bind some friendship between you. Well, at least, you still get to see each other and talk with each other as long as no husband or wife will react (uhurm...). The love you have both when you are still with each other will show you, both, how to be the best of friends. It will even help you with your new relationship! BUT...there's that big BUT....KNOW YOUR LIMITATIONS! You may never know it will lead to some unhealthy affair and then too late! You will hurt somebody...everyone! And it's a no-no!
Then, what might be the reason? Money? Well, there are those women who just want to buy it all. Made you a clear relationship, you think you are in love, then, all of a sudden, she just wanted to buy it all!!! In fairness, well, there are also he to this kind of relationship. Sometimes men also tend to find rich women to fulfill their material needs. With the kind of age we are in now, with all the new gadgets that men love to have and even envy to have, finding someone with money is easier if they have relationship with them. But as we all know, just beware! Always be sane! Always think and love, think and love, love and think, love and think...just to help you not get hurt and POOR in the end.
What are the other reasons? Sex? Might be! There are those couples who problem sex even sex is not making or giving them a problem (haha!). You may ask, in what way? Most couples will answer, in many ways......Sex sometimes next to money is the most problem that arose between couples. Might be that the issue of pre-ejaculation is touch, might be that the other is upset because the other is being selfish, self-centered and insensitive. Name everything you want to in terminology but just the same, it all ends up with one problem: sex satisfaction. If there is satisfaction, both will be happy and contented, rested and settled, stress-free and the relationship will be a smooth-sailing one. Though there will be some small dark mushroom along the way, but both will be able to go hand in hand walking along that rocky road. Always think when there are problems, that in a relationship, a road might be so rocky but no matter how hurting it is to travel, the view is magnificent! Let us talk about sex...healthy sex (of course! But still Parental Guidance is needed). Why do couples sometimes start the day with a pout? The answer might be that the partner left the other hanging last night on their adventure. Why? Maybe the other one is so tired? Or the other is sick? If this will be the case, it is curable still. Just understand each other and make some ways to ease the burden so that the partner will be able to cater to your "needs". If the woman is tired from the days work or anything, why not the man prepare the dinner ( no matter the take-out), set the table, massage the tension away, talk...then maybe, it will lead to a wonderful experience better than you expected. But if all else fail, don't fret! Hold on to your temper, there will always be next time...
Couples composed of two people, of different upbringing, from different environment, from different type of discipline, and from different kind of beliefs in all things. That is why most couples doesn't last for a long time and choose to just end the relationship even if they still love each other and still wanted to be with each other because they cannot just can't bear to be with each other forever (only for a day or two or "just when I needed you most" but if I am happy you're out of my life! only when I am sad, no one to talk to, no money to spend and etc...). Reasons, reasons, reasons....it is really a choice between couples, I mean the parting time, no matter how painful to see him or her go, one of each will always think it is better to let go than to be hurt so many times. Okay! Let's deal with this....
Let us first deal with LOVE GONE ASTRAY.
WHAT. Know the reasons (no matter how many) what causes the "Forever Never After" thing. Love? I guess not, love is always there ( accept it or not, it's up to you, just do not be a hypocrite...), it never left even if you are not with each other anymore, love always finds its ways to your hearts. But not always to make up, (yeah, sadly) sometimes just enough to bind some friendship between you. Well, at least, you still get to see each other and talk with each other as long as no husband or wife will react (uhurm...). The love you have both when you are still with each other will show you, both, how to be the best of friends. It will even help you with your new relationship! BUT...there's that big BUT....KNOW YOUR LIMITATIONS! You may never know it will lead to some unhealthy affair and then too late! You will hurt somebody...everyone! And it's a no-no!
Then, what might be the reason? Money? Well, there are those women who just want to buy it all. Made you a clear relationship, you think you are in love, then, all of a sudden, she just wanted to buy it all!!! In fairness, well, there are also he to this kind of relationship. Sometimes men also tend to find rich women to fulfill their material needs. With the kind of age we are in now, with all the new gadgets that men love to have and even envy to have, finding someone with money is easier if they have relationship with them. But as we all know, just beware! Always be sane! Always think and love, think and love, love and think, love and think...just to help you not get hurt and POOR in the end.
What are the other reasons? Sex? Might be! There are those couples who problem sex even sex is not making or giving them a problem (haha!). You may ask, in what way? Most couples will answer, in many ways......Sex sometimes next to money is the most problem that arose between couples. Might be that the issue of pre-ejaculation is touch, might be that the other is upset because the other is being selfish, self-centered and insensitive. Name everything you want to in terminology but just the same, it all ends up with one problem: sex satisfaction. If there is satisfaction, both will be happy and contented, rested and settled, stress-free and the relationship will be a smooth-sailing one. Though there will be some small dark mushroom along the way, but both will be able to go hand in hand walking along that rocky road. Always think when there are problems, that in a relationship, a road might be so rocky but no matter how hurting it is to travel, the view is magnificent! Let us talk about sex...healthy sex (of course! But still Parental Guidance is needed). Why do couples sometimes start the day with a pout? The answer might be that the partner left the other hanging last night on their adventure. Why? Maybe the other one is so tired? Or the other is sick? If this will be the case, it is curable still. Just understand each other and make some ways to ease the burden so that the partner will be able to cater to your "needs". If the woman is tired from the days work or anything, why not the man prepare the dinner ( no matter the take-out), set the table, massage the tension away, talk...then maybe, it will lead to a wonderful experience better than you expected. But if all else fail, don't fret! Hold on to your temper, there will always be next time...
